The Cave You Fear to Enter: Revealing the Disciplined Path to Real Estate Success
The Tasks you Fear most in Real Estate are the Keys to your Success. Embrace the Challenge, Step Outside of your Comfort Zone, Build the Courage to Confront your Fears, Put together a Production Playbook, and uncover the opportunities you deserve. Read more…
In the world of Real Estate, Success isn’t just about Knowing the Market, having the right connections, or even mastering the latest technologies. It is about consistently taking the actions that most agents avoid - the Uncomfortable, often Daunting Tasks that lead to Growth and Long-Term Accomplishments. Joseph Campbell once said, “The Cave you Fear to enter holds the Treasure you Seek,” and this couldn’t be more relevant to Real Estate Agents and Brokers today.
The Fear that Holds You Back -- Through my years of training and coaching in the real estate industry, I’ve observed a common thread among some Agents and Brokers: a tendency to Avoid the very activities that can propel their careers forward. Whether it is Prospecting, Phone Canvassing, Making Recruiting Calls, or Following Up with CRM Leads, these actions are often sidestepped, Not because agents don’t know they’re important, but because of underlying Fears, Hesitations, lack of Accountability, and let’s be honest Complacency.
Let’s break down some of the reasons Agents and Brokers avoid these Crucial Tasks:
Fear of Facing the Truth: Many agents are afraid to confront the reality that they might Not be as Skilled or as Professional as they think they are. They worry that if they fully commit to Prospecting and still don’t see success, it might confirm their worst fears. This fear keeps them from stepping into the "cave," where they could truly discover their Potential.
The Illusion of Tomorrow: This is a Big One! It’s all too easy to push action to the next day, with the hope that tomorrow will bring better circumstances, more confidence, or a clearer plan. But this habit of Procrastination becomes a cycle that prevents real progress. I tell my Boot-Camp Participants: “Progress beats Perfection every time - Keep Moving Forward, even if it’s Not Perfect…”
The Reluctance to Do the Work: There’s a common desire among agents to find shortcuts or magic bullets - something that will make the process easier or quicker. But Real Estate Success isn’t about shortcuts; it’s about Consistent hard work. The treasure isn’t found on the surface; it’s buried deep within the Daily Grind of Prospecting and Follow-Up.
Comfort and Complacency: Some agents become too comfortable where they are, which leads to Complacency. They’ve established a routine that feels safe, but that safety is deceptive. True growth happens Outside of the comfort zone; -- So, Yes we risk hearing “No” and accept that it is part of our job, realizing that working with people is both wonderful and at times disorienting.
The What-Ifs: Agents often worry about the negative consequences of their actions - what if they’re rejected, what if they don’t secure the listing, what if they make a mistake? These "what-ifs" create a barrier that keeps them from entering the cave. But by avoiding these challenges, they also miss out on the rewards that come from Taking Risks and pushing forward.
Lack of a Strategy Playbook: You’ve got to have a Playbook that you layer over your Calendar. Waking up in the morning hoping that the phone will ring and Not a Strategy. Hoping that Past Clients will call you with a Referral is Not one either. Consider shifting from an Order-Taking Mindset to a Pro-Active one.
Stepping into the Cave -- The cave that agents fear isn’t just a metaphor - it’s a real, tangible place where The Work of Prospecting, Engaging with potential clients, and Building Relationships takes place. It is Uncomfortable, it is Uncertain, and it is often where agents face the most resistance. But it’s also where the riches of success are hidden.
So how do you overcome these fears and step into the cave? Here are some insights:
Shift Your Mindset: Start by reframing your fears. Instead of seeing Prospecting as a dreaded task, view it as an Opportunity to grow, learn, and improve. Every “No” you encounter is one step closer to a “Yes.” What if you are not quite adept at Prospecting? -- then take Training Classes or Ask your Broker for Solutions; Make the Decision to become a better Prospector then seek Solutions.
Take Consistent Action: Success in real estate isn’t about doing something once and hoping for the best. It’s about showing up every day, ready to Take Action, even when it’s uncomfortable. For example, require yourself to have a minimum number of Real Estate Calls and Conversations every work day: 10 would be a good start.
Build Accountability: Surround yourself with a Supportive Network - whether it’s a coach, a mentor, or a peer group. Accountability Partners can help push you when your own motivation falters and ensure you’re taking the steps needed to succeed.
Consider Affirmations: Positive Self-Talk can mute the Negative Tape we all have that keeps warning us of failure or reminding us we are not good enough. An Affirmation such as: “I Confront my Fears and take Bold Actions; the Success I Seek is within my Reach.” Will not change your life instantly, but will send a signal to your mind that you have what it takes to Grow and Prosper.
The Treasure Awaits -- The Activities that Real Estate Agents and Brokers avoid are Not just tasks on a to-do list - they’re the very keys to unlocking success in this industry. By embracing the discomfort of Prospecting for New Busines, you don’t just find the value you seek - you become the Professional you were meant to be. Remember, the cave you fear to enter is the place where your success lies hidden. Take the step, face the fear, and discover the riches that await. Your future self will thank you for it.
If you are seeking a Comprehensive Real Estate Playbook you may want to consider the Upcoming Nov/Dec/Jan 3-Month Real Estate Training Boot-Camp. It is Not a program for the faint of hearts, but if a Successful Real Estate Career is what you seek and are ready to Pay your Dues, it may prove a handsome investment.
--- Some Quotes and Affirmations examples below Graphic:
Reflect on these Quotes and Affirmations -- I invite you to write a few of your own:
“Do the thing you Fear, and the Death of Fear is Certain.” -- Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Everything you’ve ever Wanted is on the Other Side of Fear.” -- George Addair
“Every step I take into the unknown brings me closer to the Opportunities I Deserve.”
“I Trust in my Abilities and face every Prospecting Activity with Confidence and Determination.”
“I am Resilient, and I see every ‘No’ as a Step Closer to my next ‘Yes.’”
Author: Key Yessaad is an Energetic Real Estate Trainer, Business Coach, and Mindset Strategist; with over 20 years of experience Empowering Brokers and Agents embrace Accountability and lean into Self-Discipline. Key’s Unique Programs such as the “The 3-Month Production and Listings Boot-Camps,” and the “All-Day Strategy Workshops” focus on the Essential Skills of Time-Blocking, Prospecting, Getting Listings, Script Development, Lead Conversion, and much more. Key helps Committed Professionals transform their potential into tangible Success, ensuring they thrive in a competitive market with Actionable Strategies and Unwavering Support.
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Negotiating Against Yourself: A Major Challenge to Success in Real Estate!
Integrity is not simply keeping one’s word with our clients; Integrity is about keeping our Word with our Intentions. Call it Self-Integrity if you wish. You tell yourself that you will block 45 minutes of Follow Up Calls, and you know it is very important that you do it today; and you actually do it today! read more…
A Real Estate Career is not for the faint of hearts; it is a Challenging Pursuit, and one of the Major Obstacles to Achieving Success is “Negotiating Against Ourselves.” While most Real Estate Agents understand the importance of keeping their promises with their clients, they often struggle to Keep their Promises to themselves. This insidious absence of Self-Integrity in some, can have serious consequences and has derailed the Careers of Many.
When we Fail to keep our promises to Ourselves, our minds Negotiate against “Our Will,” and Excuses begin to take over. Our intentions start to wane, and we find ourselves unable to take the Necessary Actions to move forward. This is why it's vital to develop a strong sense of Self-Integrity and Commit to following through on the Promises we make to Ourselves.
One of the biggest challenges that Real Estate Agents face is the Fear of Rejection. Many Agents know what they Need To Do to become Successful Listing Agents, but they often find themselves looking for Alternatives to avoid confronting their fear. We know where the Homeowners actually live - yet we fail to Call them, Door-Knock them, or even Mail them. This can lead to a lack of action and ultimately, a failure to Get Listings.
To overcome this challenge, it's important to Take Action regardless of how we feel. The best actions are those that we take even when we don't feel like it. By infusing the philosophy of "Just Doing - No Over-Thinking" during part of our day, we can fulfill the Promised Goals we make to our Higher Selves and Achieve Success. It is important to remember that sometimes we may feel like taking action, and sometimes we won't. But by committing to Taking Action regardless of our feelings, we can Overcome our Fears and Achieve our goals.
If you want to thrive in Real Estate, it's crucial to Keep Your Promises to Yourself, Confront your Fears, and Take Action even when it's uncomfortable. By Adopting a Success Mindset and Committing to a course of action, you can Negotiate for Yourself to achieve your goals and build a Successful Career.
Here are a few Mantras and Affirmations to Help you in this endeavor:
“I am Committed to Keeping my Promises to Myself and Taking Action towards my Goals.”
“I Confront my Fears and Take Action even when it's Uncomfortable because I know that's the Path to Success.”
“I am Worthy of Success in Real Estate and I have The Skills and knowledge to achieve it.” -- Gratitude Thinking.
“I Infuse the Philosophy of "Just Doing - No Over-Thinking" into part of my Day to stay Focused and Motivated.”
“I Take Inspired Action towards my Goals and trust that the Universe supports my Success.”
Author: Key Yessaad is a Highly Skilled Real Estate Strategist, Trainer, and Coach, with over 20 years of Experience empowering Brokers and Agents develop the Skills and Habits they need to Achieve Success. He is a Listings' Strategist, Production Coach, and has created Innovative Real Estate Training Programs and Success Approaches such as the #10WeekTraining Programs and the Boot-Camp Success Workshops.
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Develop a Gratitude Mindset and Let Abundance Guide You
Real Estate Professionals are the type of Entrepreneurs whose business are “People;” many think they are in the Business of Houses, and they would be a tad off… a Gratitude Mindset goes a long way in building rich engagements on our communities; let’s find out what it means to develop a “Gratitude Mindset…”
Gratitude plays a big role in the life of Entrepreneurs and especially in Real Estate Professionals; your business is a “people business” and you cannot succeed by yourself sitting on island. You are connected to the Community, to your neighbors, and to all the people thinking about Moving, Selling, and/or Buying nearby. You are in the business of People Not Houses and therefore developing a Gratitude Mindset goes a long way to connecting you authentically locally.
What is Gratitude? The dictionary says: The state of being grateful. And Grateful is defined as: Appreciative of benefits received. So, what is a Gratitude Mindset? It is the state of living your life valuing the possessions you have, as well as the Achievements you have accomplished -- but it goes further than that; it is living your life noticing “The Good” that surrounds you and celebrating it regardless of you instigating or not.
Do not think it is easy to develop a Gratitude Mindset; especially when you are surrounded with “News” which really means terrible news about the world; and surrounded with some people who only see the horrible and terrible and have no time to celebrate the good. They look at you as being an Alien who does not understand what is truly going on in the world. When you say: “I am Grateful that the Plane is already at the gate and that the boarding process got all of us on the plane on time.” The naysayers would say: “Why are you grateful for this? That was their job in the first place; that’s what should have happened.” I choose to see boarding a plane as an act of Gratitude because it gets me to be with the people I am going to visit and work with.
How does a Gratitude Mindset manifest itself in one’s daily life? This is the beauty of this mindset; you get to choose. I say start by noticing those around you and catching them doing something Right. One of the things I do is to randomly call my friends on Social Media and chat about their life and what they are up to. When you give a friend a chance to articulate what is important in their life, they become more passionate about it; so simply listening to their dreams and validating their journey is an act of Gratitude.
Another way to nurture a Gratitude Mindset is to bring to the fore this hard question: “What difficulties and/or upsets have I caused in others?” This is Not an easy question to confront; but an important one. It will keep you grounded on your intention of being an Agent of the Good; and help you rectify any unintentional harm you may have triggered.
This is not an easy journey to embark on, and some will ridicule your commitment to have Gratitude flowering in your heart, but the journey is so worthwhile. You will ease your Stress; You will become more approachable; You will experience more Joy and become an instigator of Joy in the life of others; and you will get back more, even though you are not looking for any rewards. Let me end with this quote by Melody Beattie: “Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.”
Author: Key Yessaad is a Highly Skilled Real Estate Strategist, Trainer, and Coach, with over 20 years of Experience empowering Brokers and Agents develop the Skills and Habits they need to Achieve Success. He is a Listings' Strategist, Production Coach, and has created Innovative Real Estate Training Programs and Success Approaches such as the #10WeekTraining Programs and the Boot-Camp Success Workshops.
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